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Would you want your state to investigate this child abuse allegation?

Posted by: Jeremy Olson Updated: February 22, 2012 - 1:14 PM
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Minnesota's legislative auditor came up with a fascinating way to test the consistency of the state's child welfare intake agencies. The auditor presented 10 fictional abuse complaints to 84 tribal and county child welfare agencies to see whether they'd agree about whether to investigate.
Below are five of the scenarios from the auditor's new report on child welfare intake. What would you do? Screen them in for investigations? Or screen them out and not use your agency's limited resources to investigate? 
Case 1: Sam North calls about his cousin, Johnny Maker. Sam says that Johnny was evicted from his apartment last month and is now staying in a trailer on private land with no plumbing or electricity. Sam says Johnny's two sons – ages ten and twelve – use the woods for a bathroom. Sam says Johnny does not have permission to stay on the land. Sam would like someone to check on the kids and their living conditions.
Case 2: Dr. Jones calls to report that Emily Blackdeer tested positive for marijuana after giving birth to a baby boy yesterday. He says the child's meconium was not tested due to a mix up. Jones reports that Emily also tested positive for marijuana during her pregnancy. Jones said Emily told him she smoked marijuana during her pregnancy to help her with her appetite.
Case 3: Police fax the following report: I responded to a report of five-year-old Davie Michaelson wandering in town. I met with Ann Johnson, a passerby who had found this child. While I was speaking with Ann, a man approached who said he knew the child. He directed me to a house at the end of the block. The yard was fenced, but the gate and front door were open. I entered the house and found Tammy Michaelson (Davie’s mother) sleeping on the couch. I awakened her and she explained that she had worked the third shift at the gas station last night and had left the boy to watch cartoons while she napped. The TV was on with a children’s DVD playing. Tammy said she had locked the door, but Davie must have unlocked it and left.
Case 4: Marcus calls with concerns regarding his four-year-old son Andrew. Marcus says friends have told him that Andrew's mother, Amber, is drunk every day to the point of throwing up and has withdrawal tremors from alcohol. Marcus reports that he and Amber are not together, but share custody of Andrew. He says Amber's friends brought Andrew to him the other day and told him Amber was too drunk to take care of Andrew. Marcus says that Andrew saw him smoking a cigarette the other day and said that his mom and her friends smoke a different kind of cigarette which his mom calls her "medicine." Marcus believes that this is marijuana. Marcus says he is caring for Andrew beyond what is ordered in the custody agreement because Marcus won't give Andrew to Amber when she is drunk.
Case 5: A high school counselor calls to report that Shaniqua Thomas, age 15, said she was afraid to go home and was going to run away. Shaniqua told the counselor that her father, Dante Thomas, "hates me" and that he pulls her hair, punches her on the back, slaps her on the back of the head, throws things at her, yells at her, and flicks her in the face. The counselor says she asked Shaniqua if she had any bruises or marks on her body and Shaniqua said she did not. The counselor says she has never seen marks on Shaniqua. Shaniqua told the counselor that she and her dad often fight about curfew and how well she is doing in school. The counselor states that Shaniqua is an "average" student and missed six days of school last year.
Here is the variation in responses among the county and tribal agencies:
  1. 29 percent of agencies would screen this in.
  2. 82 percent of agencies would screen this in.
  3. 54 percent of agencies would screen this in.
  4. 47 percent of agencies would screen this in.
  5. 43 percent of agencies would screen this in.
The results show some varying interpretations of state law, but also perhaps some regional and societal variations over what necessitates a child welfare investigation.
Differences even showed up at Tuesday's legislative committee hearing on the audit when the subject turned to spanking as discipline. Rep. Glenn Gruenhagen, R-Glencoe, retold how he was spanked as a child, and noted that spanking remains legal in Minnesota. Yet he said social workers in some cases seem to presume that spanking isn't ever appropriate. (Once he said he was spanked by a school bus driver and he said he deserved it because he was being mean to a girl. There were silent cringes in the audience among those who didn't agree with this form of discipline.)
Legislative auditor James Nobles was diplomatic when Gruenhagen asked him if it was a problem that social workers and other mandated reporters of child abuse were misreading the law over spanking: "What we are presenting to you is a range of possibilities on where you want in law to intervene in the legal framework. If you think that is an area that needs clarification, and you think that's an appropriate role for the legislature, we think it is certainly your prerogative."
Nobles later added: "Even though there may be an impulse on the part of all of us to err on the side of protecting the child in responding to an allegation, I do think we have to keep in mind that that intervention is by government into a family situation. So I think very definitely it has to be a very disciplined and appropriate intervention based on the facts as best as they can be determined and measured against the law and the rules."
Audio of that intriguing exchange can be found here. The conversation starts at about minute 26 of the committee hearing.

To helicopter or not to helicopter? The parent playground question ...

Posted by: Jeremy Olson Updated: February 20, 2012 - 1:15 PM
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Friday's story on the recalled playground slide was interesting, but this was one of the occasions in which I found the reader comments even more delicious. (And that's no slight to reporter Paul Walsh. Great job on the story.)

Playground safety really seems to strike an emotional chord with readers. Parents only had to take one look at a picture of the recalled slide and wonder who would have green-lighted such a contraption in the first place (I took to calling it "Aerosmith: The Slide," because it oddly reminded me of Steven Tyler's tongue.)

 

 

From reader cuban78: "My 4-year-old son wanted to ride this slide at a playground last summer after T-ball. There's no sign on it that has an age recommendation -- it's just there on the elementary school playground. I have to say that I was pretty nervous to see him use it -- it's a tricky transition at the top, and there's no instructions, so the kids try to ride it like a regular slide, with their feet on the track instead of along the sides like the kid in the photo. Needless to say, I held his hand the whole way down and he wasn't interested in using it again."

But then there were the commenters recalling the playgrounds and playtimes of their youth -- including the metal jungle gyms and other contraptions erected in a pre-litigation world.

From reader mmcgrane: "Geez, what a bunch of whiners (want some cheese) ... When I was growing up in the '60s our playground was in the parking lot of the fire dept, which was asphalt. We fell, we got up and moved on. Quit coddling kids all the time."
 
And then there were the commenters saying that parents should, in fact, coddle their kids all the time.
 
From reader dorkeemn: "I guess they aren't going to allow any posts on here that are in favor of the company or design. If you look at the photo -- there are HANDLES for the kid to hold on to. The photo also shows a parent standing by the kids watching them. Wonder how many of the injured kids's parents where watching them?"
 
So what's a parent to do? Hover while their kids attempt every challenge on the playground? Give the kids space and a little risk as they navigate slides and swings and monkey bars? (I'm mindful of a prior blog suggesting that children are losing out by not having more risk in their playground experiences.) Parents, post your thoughts. When your little kids are at the playgrounds, when do you decide to hover and when do you decide to give the kids space?

 

Mayo Clinic tallies hospital cost of underage drinking ...

Posted by: Jeremy Olson Updated: February 17, 2012 - 10:08 AM
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Society pays about $755 million per year to hospitalize U.S. children and teens who suffer illnesses or injuries due to illegal alcohol consumption, Mayo Clinic researchers reported earlier this week in the Journal of Adolescent Health.

The rate of alcohol-related hospitalizations among 15- to 20-year-olds was highest in the Midwest, and highest among Native American boys in that region. The study reviewed 699,506 hospital discharges among 15- to 20-year-olds (excluding child birth cases). Shockingly, researchers found that 79 percent of these teens were drunk on arrival to the hospital, and 5.6 percent (39,619) met criteria for an alcohol use disorder, according to a Mayo press release on the study.

 “When teenagers drink, they tend to drink excessively, leading to many destructive consequences including motor vehicle accidents, injuries, homicides and suicides,” said Dr. Terry Scheenkloth, a Mayo addiction expert and psychiatrist. 

More than $500 million in hospital costs were for treatment of injuries, the Mayo study found. There were 107 deaths.
 
This grim toll of teen alcohol consumption comes despite some good news on teen behaviors. The Minnesota Student Survey shows declines over the past decade in alcohol consumption, binge drinking and drunk driving. In 1992, 80 percent of high school seniors in Minnesota had tried alcohol at least once in the past, according to survey data. That rate dropped to 55.3 percent in 2010.
 
More on the Mayo study can be found here.

 

Where to go to look up your daycare's record ...

Posted by: Jeremy Olson Updated: February 16, 2012 - 12:15 PM
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Daycare problems are in the news this week with the closure of a notorious facility in Brooklyn Center and the death of a child at a Coon Rapids family-based day care.

Advocates said the closure of the Arena Early Learning Center is a reminder that parents should look up the license history of their children's current or future day care facilities using the Minnesota Department of Human Service's web site. This is in addition to using the up-and-coming Parent Aware site, which comprehensively ranks licensed child care centers in the state but might not even list those that have bad disciplinary records.

The checkered history of the Arena facility can be seen here. The absence of any recent disciplinary action against the Coon Rapids home-based daycare where the child died can be seen here.

A common question is why parents kept their children at the Arena facility if they had any suspicions of its quality or problems with the staff there. Part of the answer has to do with the fact that it offered 24 hour service during the work week. Parents with night shift jobs have very few options when it comes to professional, licensed child care.

Some larger daycare chains have tried extended hours but found that they were money-losers. Many parents need night hours for a while, but then switch to regular day jobs. Daycares find it hard to maintain a stable base of children to financially support night hours.

"It’s a puzzle that’s been around for a long time," said Ann McCully, executive director of the Minnesota Child Care Resource & Referral Network. "I don’t think we've gotten any better at solving it."

The hopeless cases of the child support system ...

Posted by: Jeremy Olson Updated: February 13, 2012 - 3:17 PM
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An interesting flap emerged last week between Hennepin County and the Minnesota Department of Human Services over whether the county was closing dormant child support cases too quickly -- and without legal justification. An initial review suggested as many as 217 child support cases in Hennepin County were inappropriately closed -- with a total of $5.9 million still owed in those cases, according to figures provided by DHS.

The dispute -- spurred by a Channel 5 report -- seems in many ways to be an administrative matter over whether the county is following the letter of state and federal law. Officials from both agencies acknowledged that the closed cases at issue involved debts that deadbeat parents were unlikely to pay in full or at all. The cases the county closed -- inappropriately as it turned out -- had not seen payments in years and involved children who were now adults.

In some ways, the issue behind this dispute is the more interesting one: the lingering impact of the last economic recession that has left child support payers and payees struggling to make ends meet and raise healthy children.

"If we thought there was money out there that could be used for the support of a child, we'd be going for it," said Deborah Huskins, an area director for the county's human services and public health department. "These are cases where we don't think that is going to be the result ... Most of these people (owing money) are in desperate straights themselves. There are a lot of people who have fallen on hard times ... The fact of the matter is they don't have any money themselves or the money they do have is a form of public assistance that is not collectable under federal and state law."

The life circumstances don't necessarily matter, nor does the county have the legal authority to close a child support case just because a payment hasn't been made in a long time, said Anne Barry, deputy commissioner of the state human services department. Philosophically, that would set a bad precedent to deadbeat parents that they could avoid paying if they just stayed out of sight for for enough years.

"We get federal money because the federal government expects us to implement policies on these programs, which includes the belief that if an obligation is owed, an obligation is owed," Barry said. "Just because a payment hasn't been made in five years doesn’t mean that an obligation isn’t going to be fulfilled … None of us should be comfortable with that."

The specter of losing federal money is driving this dispute. The county had been closing dormant cases in part because it is judged by the federal government on the percent of cases in which payments are made. If the county's batting average is too low, so to speak, it could lose federal funding. But Barry said the financial penalties would likely be worse if a federal audit found that the county wasn't following the law and was closing cases prematurely.

The state conducted another review of closed cases last week and found that Hennepin County isn't the only offender. There were numerous cases in Ramsey County and statewide in which child support cases were closed without adequate justification. The state has ordered that these cases be re-opened, making the counties responsible for overseeing them and pursuing payment from deadbeat parents if at all possible again. County officials are hoping for changes in state legislation that would legally define hopeless collection cases and give them adequate justification to close them out.

Which type of parent are you? And which style works best?

Posted by: Jeremy Olson Updated: February 10, 2012 - 2:05 PM
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A new study in the Journal of Adolescence identifies three parenting styles and the style that produces the most stable children. Which parent are you?

a) Authoritarian parents are demanding and highly controlling. They are detached and unreceptive to their childrens needs. These parents support unilateral communication where they establish rules without explanation and expect them to be obeyed without question.
 
b) Authoritative parents are demanding and controlling. They are warm and receptive to their childrens needs. They are receptive to bidirectional communication in that they explain to their children why they have established rules and listen to their childrens opinions about those rules.
 
c) Permissive parents are nondemanding and noncontrolling. They tend to be warm and receptive to their childrens needs, but place few boundaries on their children. If they do establish rules, they rarely enforce them to any great extent.
It's no great mystery which definition wins out in the study: authoritative. The benefits of that approach have been proven in prior research. A team from the University of New Hampshire tried to go a step farther by determining whether these different styles affected whether children viewed their parents as legitimate authorities. The study was based on survey responses by 600 middle and high school students.
 
Why is this important? Because if kids view their parents as legitimate authorities, they're more likely to obey their parents' rules even when they're on their own. At least that's the theory. 
 
The study found that children generally didn't recognize authoritarian parents as authority figures and were the most likely to engage in law violations and other delinquent behavior. (So much for "my way or the highway!") By contrast, children of authoritative parents were the most likely to respect their parents' rules at all times. They were more self-reliant and self-controlled.
 
Children of permissive parents confounded the study a bit. The researchers predicted that these children wouldn't view their parents as authority figures -- and that turned out to be true. However, the study didn't find that children of permissive parents were more likely to be delinquent.
  
So here's my follow-up question: Can problematic parents change on the fly and turn themselves into authority figures that their children recognize and respect? Or is there a point when the damage is done, so to speak, and children's views of their parents are hard-wired? Check back for some local experts' views on this question. Meanwhile, post your thoughts below. Can parents change their stripes?  

And now for a brief tangent. I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that the father in the now infamous Feb. 7 Facebook discipline video (see below) is more in the authoritarian category. (Watch with care. It contains expletives and, of course, the violence of the father shooting his daughter's laptop 10 times.) This frustrated father sure lays down the law, but research would suggest that his daughter isn't going to gain any more respect for his authority as a result.

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