Bev and Bud were married in 1951 at the courthouse. Bev had a stroke at 65 in 1996 and Bushway cared for her for 11 years before she died in 2007 — “real good care,” said their daughter Gayle, 63.
In addition to Gayle, they have Jeannette Macy, 62, who lives near St. Cloud, Michael Bushway, 59, of Maple Grove, and MaryKay Herbert, 58, of Corcoran, as well as eight grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren.
MaryKay remembers her father constructing flagpoles from clotheslines when the kids were little. He eventually bought the soaring flagpole that stands near the boulevard, and had it installed professionally. He has always bought flags from the American Legion or VFW and returns them there for proper disposal when they are worn or damaged.
“Christmas and Father’s Day,” Gayle said, “everyone knew what to buy him.”
“I think he’s very proud to be a veteran,” Jeannette said. “I think that’s a part of it.”
It wasn’t long before the Bushway house became the gathering spot for neighborhood kids. “Meet us at the house with the flag,” they’d say. Sometimes, the kids would steal it as a prank. “Boy, was I ticked,” Bushway said.
Bushway sits at his kitchen table, the space largely a still-life homage to Bev. Tiny wood birdhouses hang above the sink. There’s a jar of shells and family photos on a shelf, and a “Beverly’s Kitchen” ceramic hot plate on the counter.
Bushway laughs recalling a morning when he left for work before dawn, just after raising the flag. Around noon, police arrived to make sure that Bev and the kids were all right. He had accidentally hung the flag upside down, the universal sign of peril.
More often, though, his flag was a universal source of pride within the community, and a reminder to take care of one another. One night after Bushway had accompanied Bev to the hospital, a neighbor walked over and took the flag down.
When it’s not up in the morning, he hears about that, too. “Bud must be sick,” he imitates. “It ain’t up.’ ”
He’s been saluted by bicyclists, and touched by surprising kindnesses. “Are you a veteran?” asked a boy passing by from nearby Cedar Manor Elementary School. Yes, I am, he told the boy, whom he guesses was no older than 12.
“He gave me the biggest salute,” Bushway said, his sky-blue eyes tearing up, his easy smile widening. “His parents raised him well.”
Another day, two women from the Daughters of the American Revolution stood at his door, carrying the gift of a flag. “And we had company over and everything,” he said, delighted.
Dee Wuollet, 91, said the respect for her longtime neighbor is well deserved. “I am so proud of him,” said Wuollet, who moved onto the block in 1961. She recently wrote a letter to the editor of the weekly newspaper about Bushway, “our true American citizen.”
A few years ago, Bushway noticed that a large flag flying at a local business was torn. He asked for the owner.
“That is terrible,” he told the man. “I’m a World War II vet and, for $25, you can buy a new one.”
The business owner told him to mind his own business. “I walked out,” Bushway said. “I spoke my piece.”
A few days later, a new flag was flying.