For the love of letters

  • Article by: PAMELA HUEY , Star Tribune
  • Updated: September 5, 2007 - 5:32 PM

The old-fashioned letter took a hit with the advent of e-mail, but there is a passionate group devoted to writing and receiving personal snail mail.

'Letters, we get letters, we get stacks and stacks of letters," crooner Perry Como used to sing.

Except today, most of us don't get stacks and stacks of letters. Some us don't get any letters at all. Instead, we get piles and piles of e-mails.

E-mailing and text messaging may be quicker and more efficient but there are still people writing letters, addressing and licking envelopes, and dropping them in the mailbox.

"There is nothing to compare to a letter on paper. Nothing, nothing, nothing," said Wendy Russ, an Arkansas woman who maintains a website called "Letters, Letter-writing and Other Intimate Discourse."

For thousands of years, people have communicated by writing letters: love letters, family letters, thank-you letters, business letters, Dear John letters. Some of history's most famous letters are found in the Bible, written by the Apostle Paul.

Keeping the letter alive

Like Russ, two Twin Cities residents are trying to keep the age-old art alive. Gary Marvin and Lonna Riedinger of North Oaks write letters because they savor the joy of finding a missive in their mailbox, and they appreciate good writing.

Through an endeavor called "The Letter Exchange," the two connect letter writers nationwide and overseas. In 2003, they took over the project from a California man who had started it in 1982.

Three times a year, Marvin and Riedinger send a pamphlet to a mailing list of about 400. In all, they've sent issues to about 1,135 people.

"The Letter Exchange" contains listings in categories from "Art" to "Writing," from people looking for pen pals.

• "Retired fireman rides bicycle 7 miles to post office. More fun if there is something in the box."

• "Don't let e-mail take over. Postcards, funny greeting cards, stationery. Send your grocery list!"

• "I need letters! Any kind of letter. Whimsical whimsy or soul searching thoughts. Just gotta have letters!"

Marvin and Riedinger were enthusiastic Letter Exchange participants -- "Lexers," as they call themselves -- before they took on the job as editors.

"We're both pretty introverted in terms of personality. And so it provides a way of meeting people. It's less stressful than going to parties or going to bars," he said.

"It's also more thoughtful. Because a letter comes in, and you think about a way to respond and eventually get something down on paper but by that time, you've done a lot of thinking."

Marvin has been writing to Lex pen pals since 1986. At one point, he estimates he was writing to nearly 75 people. "But a lot of those were postcards, which, of course, goes a lot faster."

Riedinger didn't start writing Lex letters until the late '90s. Now, at any given time, she corresponds with 15 to 20 people, sending mostly handwritten letters.


    "A letter is a joy of Earth -- It is denied the Gods."

    Emily Dickinson

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    "Letter writing is the only device for combining solitude with good company."

    Lord Byron

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    "A pleasant letter I hold to be the pleasantest thing that this world has to give."

    Anthony Trollope

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    "In a letter to a friend, the thought is often unimportant, and the feeling, if it be only a desire to entertain him, everything."

    Sir Walter Raleigh

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    "Letters are above all useful as a means of expressing the ideal self."

    Elizabeth Hardwick

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