Adam Toren remembers the last time he crawled into bed, pulled the covers over his head and took off sick from work.
“My whole family got wracked by the flu around 2006,” said Toren, a tech entrepreneur and writer. “Hopefully, that was the last time.”
Thirteen years later, Toren, who lives in Phoenix, said he hasn’t missed another day of work from illness, a streak of which he is exceedingly proud. To keep that streak going, he monitors his sleep cycles and practices habits that he thinks keep him healthy. “I don’t drink coffee,” he said. “I drink specialty teas — Gyukuro, a Japanese tea. I take turmeric and resveratrol,” a supplement.
Toren’s attendance may be an outlier, but it seems that the sick day is disappearing from the office vocabulary, even as we hit peak flu season.
Once, a sick day was just that — a day away from work to focus on recovery (or at least pretend to: Think “Ferris Bueller’s Day Off”).
But in recent years, it has become something murkier in definition and more reflective of our highly competitive, 24/7 work lives. The shifting definition and expanding mobility of the office — thanks to remote work and the rise of contractors in the gig economy — is also making the sick day somewhat passe, at least for some jobs.
“Even if you take a sick day, you’re still e-mailing in the morning, checking in later in the day,” said Kit Warchol, head of content marketing for Skillcrush, an online coding school. “It’s become more of a norm to write to your colleagues and tell them you’re working from home.”
Working from home may sound relaxing, but the “working” part of that phrase underscores the expectations that accompany it: being available to check and respond to e-mail, hop on a conference call and generally be productive, even if you feel lousy.
In a previous job, Warchol got the flu and found herself in a doctor’s waiting room. With idle time and a phone in her hands, she ended up doing e-mail. “Smartphones have changed a lot of things,” she said.
Skillcrush employees work remotely and the company has a flexible hours policy. It does not offer what have traditionally been called sick days, but rather depends on employees to responsibly manage their time and communicate with co-workers if they can’t work because of illness or other circumstances.
Flexibility vs vulnerability
When Warchol came down with a cold last fall, a few weeks after staring her job, that meant “writing in the morning, when I was fully awake and had just taken Dayquil. Then in the afternoon, I would let my team know on Slack that I was going dark a bit.”
Warchol decided to work through her cold rather than face “the anxiety of falling too far behind,” she said, a nod to increased workloads as companies have downsized or cut back on hiring.
Some workers may be afraid to take a true sick day, which might make them seem dispensable to their employers.
Warchol worried if doing so would be “seen as a sign of a lack of loyalty or tenacity.”
Many freelancers, who lack job security, also may also have such concerns.
Mark J. Marsen, director of human resources for Allies for Health & Well-Being, a Pittsburgh agency for those with HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases, said the sick day “is alive and well” at his company, although the semantics have changed.
“We call them personal emergency days,” Marsen said.
Broadening the definition gives employees greater privacy, Marsen said. It also takes into consideration mental health and whether a child or another family member who depends on the employee is sick and requires care.
No longer do employees have to “sell” their sickness to their boss with a list of symptoms. Personal days mean “you’re not able to do work today because of some circumstance,” Marsen said.
Last month, Marsen caught a cold while traveling and missed two days of work. On the third day, he said, he felt well enough to work from home and checked his e-mail, getting rid of the junk in his inbox.
Being able to take care of these small tasks remotely was a “life enhancer,” he said.
But isn’t it unhealthy to never have a day to totally disconnect from your job and recover?
Warchol, for one, appreciates the flexibility of her company’s more flexible model.
When she was a barista right out of college, working from home wasn’t an option.
“It didn’t matter if I woke up with a sore throat. I was there at 6 a.m. making people’s coffee,” Warchol said. “There is a certain amount of privilege in not having to take sick days, because you can work from your bed.”