Carolyn Hax

Columnist | Relationships
Carolyn Hax is a 40-something repatriated New Englander with a liberal arts degree and a lot of opinions and that's about it, really, when you get right down to it. Oh, and the shoes. A lot of shoes. Her column, "Tell Me About It," appears Sunday, Wednesday and Friday.

Recent content from Carolyn Hax

Misery takes a seat at this holiday table

Dear Carolyn: My husband left the day before Thanksgiving to attend a funeral. My brother, who lives nearby and whom I haven't seen since last Thanksgiving, was supposed to join us, but has been ill himself and canceled at the last moment. He asked us not to come to his home. My son, home from college after a difficult adolescence, has not spoken to me in nearly a year. He chose to stay in his room for the entire four-day weekend and ignore me and his sibling.

Updated: December 18, 2011, - 05:11 PM

Hax: Daughter is trying to raise 'Momchild'

Dear Carolyn: I don't know how to deal with my mom and her recent irresponsible decisions. She is in love again with her on-again-off-again boyfriend. To mark this new development, he recently gave her a very expensive "commitment ring," or, as I like to call it, an "I cheated on you, so here's a blinding diamond to forget about that" ring. She says in another life it would be an engagement ring (not sure what that means) and she is "sooo happy."

Updated: December 04, 2011, - 01:47 PM

Hax: Holiday problem is hers, not his

She must pick her battles.

Updated: November 25, 2011, - 10:51 AM

Hax: Why do parents do too much for kids?

Dear Carolyn: A nonparent here with a gripe about today's parents: I don't remember my parents helping me with my homework on a daily (or even weekly) basis.

Updated: November 13, 2011, - 04:10 PM

'Crazy banter' is ruining friendship

Dear Carolyn: I have been very good friends with another girl for many years. We're both in our 20s and have always had very different political views. This has never been too much of a problem because we learned to skirt most issues and "agree to disagree."

Updated: August 14, 2011, - 07:35 PM

Will ex be too hurt to see her with a date?

Dear Carolyn: I'm having an ethical dilemma related to my ex-husband. We've been divorced a year, separated for two. We were together more than five years. We were both very hurt by the breakup, but ultimately it was my decision to leave.

Updated: July 17, 2011, - 03:17 PM

He's gay and feels completely alone

Dear Carolyn: I'm gay. Congratulations, you're the first person I've told. I've had a number of miserable hetero relationships that obviously couldn't go anywhere, but I'm starting to go crazy.

Updated: January 23, 2011, - 03:21 PM

TV is the source of this family tiff

Dear Carolyn: I am an older woman, and not very mobile. I moved in with my son's family following an injury. They have been very helpful and supportive.

Updated: January 16, 2011, - 02:32 PM

Man of her dreams never wants any sex

Dear Carolyn: I'm engaged to the man of my dreams. He's gorgeous, really brilliant, loves my family, and loves me unconditionally. However, he is not intimate.

Updated: January 09, 2011, - 06:00 PM

Burglary exposes personal flaws

Dear Carolyn: My partner and I have been good friends with a woman we've known for years. Last summer, during her vacation, she asked me to help repair a small item in her home. I went over and fixed the item, and mowed her yard as a surprise.

Updated: January 02, 2011, - 02:19 PM

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